20 Unconventional Self-Care Hacks for Managing when dealing with trauma

20 unique ideas to have self care when feeling overwhelmed, when healing from trauma.

SELF CARE

Sheriese Rogers, MSW

10/30/20243 min read

woman in white bathtub with water
woman in white bathtub with water

Introduction to Self-Care Hacks

Hey there, beautiful soul! If you’re feeling overwhelmed or trapped in a haze of depression, you’re not alone. Self-care might sound like a buzzword, but let me tell you, it’s a powerful tool when you’re navigating tough times. We often think of traditional self-care routines—think bubble baths and yoga—but what about those times when you need something a bit more unconventional? Let’s dive into 20 unique self-care hacks that can be easily integrated into your life, even when everything feels too heavy. Let’s do this together!

1. Create a 'Happy Playlist'

Music is a potent mood enhancer. Curate a playlist filled with songs that lift your spirits. The moment you’re feeling low, press play and let those upbeat tunes wash over you. Dance like no one’s watching—because they aren’t!

2. Use Color Therapy

Paint your environment! Whether it’s a room or your nails, pick colors that resonate with feelings of joy and serenity. Bright yellows or calming blues can significantly alter your mood without needing you to change your entire day.

3. Journal without Rules

Grab a journal and just write—no prompts, no restrictions. Let your pen flow freely. It’s a great way to offload what’s weighing on your mind without self-judgment.

4. Doodle Your Emotions

Can’t find the right words? Grab some paper and doodle! Even messy drawings can capture your feelings and release pent-up emotions. Remember, art doesn’t demand perfection!

5. Embrace ‘Me Time’ in Small Chunks

Even if you can only steal five minutes, dedicate that time solely for you. Breathe deeply, meditate, or just enjoy a moment of silence. It can be refreshing!

6. Create a Gratitude Jar

Find an old jar and fill it with notes of gratitude. Whenever the day feels heavy, pull one out and remind yourself of the little blessings in life.

7. Try Scented Affirmations

Find a calming essential oil and pair it with positive affirmations. Say your affirmation while inhaling the scent; this connects your feelings to specific smells—a simple yet powerful hack!

8. Take a Nature Break

Even if it’s just your balcony or a window view, spending time with nature can ease your mind significantly. Take deep breaths and appreciate the beauty around you!

9. Connect with Animals

If you have pets, spend a few moments cuddling or simply observing them. Their unconditional love can be incredibly soothing and bring you back to the present moment.

10. Cook Comfort Food with a Twist

Step into the kitchen and whip up a nourishing meal. Try adding a twist to your childhood comfort food. Cooking can be therapeutic and delicious!

11. Think about a Dream Vacation

Close your eyes and envision your dream getaway. Imagine the sights, sounds, and feelings associated with it and let your mind travel far away from your worries.

12. Decluttering as Therapy

Declutter a small space. It’s a mini project that can give you a sense of accomplishment and clear your mental space at the same time!

13. Play with Clay

Get some modeling clay and just let your creativity flow! The tactile experience can be a great stress reliever while releasing your inner child.

14. Have a Tea Party for One

Set up a cozy tea party—just for you. Use your finest teacups, enjoy your favorite blends, and take your time sipping. It turns an ordinary moment into a special occasion!

15. Write a Letter to Your Future Self

This is a unique way to process where you are now, your goals, and what you hope for your future. Seal it and open it in a few months—it's a hopeful reminder of your growth.

16. Explore Virtual Reality

If you have access to a VR headset, dive into a calming environment. Virtual beaches or serene mountains can transport you away from the grind and into tranquility.

17. Create a Vision Board

Cut out images, quotes, or anything that inspires you. Put them together on a board that embodies your goals and what brings you joy—an uplifting reminder for your day!

18. Embrace Silence

For just five minutes, turn off your TV, music, and phone. Embrace the silence. Center yourself and see how powerful stillness can be.

19. Digital Detox

Take a break from social media for a day or more. It’s amazing how refreshing it can be to disconnect and focus on your personal reality without the noise of others.

20. Light a Candle

Light a comforting scented candle and allow it to fill the room. Focus on the flame—meditate on its glow. This act promotes calmness and helps clear your mind.

Conclusion

Finding ways to practice self-care when overwhelmed can seem daunting, but integrating these 20 unique self-care hacks can revive your spirit, even in the darkest moments. Remember, self-care isn’t selfish; it’s essential. You matter, so take a step toward nurturing yourself, one beautiful hack at a time!